Ask Carley: When a bridesmaid goes AWOL
By CARLEY RONEY
Q: One of my bridesmaids got engaged and practically dropped off the planet. Can I take back the offer to be in my wedding party?
A: Don't kick her out just yet.
Chances are, your friend's enjoying her own moment -- and that's OK.
Try to get together with her -- in person -- and let her know how thrilled you are for her, but also that you understand how she might want to focus on her own wedding instead of helping with yours. This way, you're letting your friend choose if she wants to back out or stay involved without straining your friendship. Kicking her to the curb without discussing what works best for both of you will just stir up unnecessary drama, which neither of you needs right now.
